Toke Makinwa, Yvonne Jegede and others agree with Alibaba’s opinion on ambitious women

Several social media users have reacted to a post where Alibaba expressively voiced out his opinion about how high achieving women are being frustrated in relationships and marriages.

In the post he shared on his Instagram, Alibaba pointed out how most women in this generation have become more ambitious and less motivating to the men as a result of their insecurities.

Notable celebrities like Yvonne Jegede and Toke Makinwa affirmed Alibaba’s post to be true. Yvonne Jegede further stated it is literally the story of her life, Toke on the other hand, stated that ‘these are the issues in most relationships and marriages.’

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And when the young ladies decide to pocket the achievements and advantages they have, so they can submit to a man in that their age bracket, many of these men have been sooo beaten by the tides of life, that they are too busy fighting the wife they should work with. _ Any attempt by the wife to suggest to him to get up and do something to succeed, is treated as disrespect, nagging, pressure and sometimes stress. _ One guy was so broken by the frustration of not having made it since he graduated in 2010, and still without a job, that he wanted his Assistant Manager fiance, to move to his father’s house in Magodo, from the Oniru 2 bedroom, she presently occupied. _ Why don’t you move in with her and make your great moves from there? “Never. I can’t marry and move into my wife’s house.” That is from a 32 year old guy, who still lives in his parents house. _ Don’t get me wrong ooo. The economy is messed up. Our politicians have not done much to drag us out of the down turn. After elections, they start working toward the next election. _ The problem has left many young men, not ready to be married. They are not prepared or do not have what it takes to be a man that can take a woman as wife. And not just as wife, to even be able to provide as the head of the house. _ So the few men who are loaded and ready, are few and in very high demand. Many ladies can hurt any other lady who tries to take any rare find, of such a man. Especially if he has a house, good job, good car, looks good, dresses well and has very few defects. _ So what’s the issue? The issue now, is that, even when these kind of young men, meet young ladies, who (by any reason) had a headstart, the young men are too faaaaaar behind, ill equipped and unprepared in the sourcing for opportunities and management of the relationship. _ They are now slaves to ego, frustration, pride, peer pressure, poverty of mind and sometimes total disillusionment. _ Look around. Don’t say I told you. Everywhere. There are many, who don’t know what to do, how to do it, where to do it, when to do it… Even with a Masters Degree in Bus Admin, LL.M, BA.Arch, Bsc Statistics. Everywhere. _ THIS IS THE REASON FOR “Still single”

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Alibaba also shared opinions from his fans on his timeline who justified his opinion and also stated how ambitions are truly affecting marriages.

 

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This is also true. The days if the man providing 100% for the family is long gone. No matter how rich you are, the best decision you and your partner can make is if both of you are working and bringing something to the family table. _ The days of full time housewives have since disappeared. No it’s a joint hustle. _ That said, if you are a woman and you refuse to up your game, and decide that the person who you marry will fulfill all your needs, you become a woman with liabilities… not an eligible bachelorette. _ Before a relationship is cemented, you have asked for rent, phone, DSTV subscription, uber money, recharge card, money for all sorts… “can I send my account details?”… _ You are burning your bridge and failing to build bridges to your happiness. _ Start doing something for yourself.

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True too.

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