Toke Makinwa totally disagrees with Snoop Dog over a post he made concerning the marriage of Gucci mane and Keyshia Ka’oir.
Snoop Dog praised the couple in a photo of them hugging each other which has a caption that reads:
“Everybody wants this, But what y’all forget is she was with Wild Gucci, on drugs Gucci, cheating Gucci, in jail Gucci, publicity with other women Gucci | This is Gucci after therapy / rehabilitation | This is a street Man Groomed in his 30’s after he’s been at his lowest | Point, this is a RIDER who knew what she signed up for, Yall other females is with another dude after a couple fights.”
However, Toke Makinwa isn’t having it at all as she countered the post with her belief that it makes women look like a joke. Further stating that the post is selling an “I suffer pass” mentality, she reiterated that the mentality made her stay in a crazy situation and also made her do so many things for the wrong reasons.
Talk Tuesday!!!!!! I am deeply tired of this narrative though, this post pissed me off soooo much, why do we like to make women look like huge jokes? why is this the way to happiness? Why must you sell the “I suffer pass” mentality? This promotes low self esteem. I know for the most part of my life I believed that for love to be real, it has to hurt, I believed there has to be pain and real humiliation before you find peace and that mentality is BS. That mentality made me stay in crazy situations and do the most for the wrong reasons. Let’s stop pls. This is trash. Pls show me examples of men who stayed with a cheating woman, drug addict, jail bird, publicity with other men etc. show me a man who knew what he signed up for and even after she slept with his brothers and friends held her down till she became refined. If we can’t pick 10 men pls stop raising your daughters to hold down situations that might eventually break them, stop selling the narrative that women have to suffer before they find love. This is ruining lives for real and it should stop.
I believe Toke Makinwa was just being overreactive as I don’t see any justifiable reason that the post is making women look like a joke. It’s obviously the lady’s decision and the husband has come forward to appreciate her for staying by him through thick and thin. The post in it’s entirety isn’t based on the narrative that women have to suffer before they find love; it is clearly an appreciative post. Hence, I believe there are many love stories out there, theirs is just one out of the millions and they have decided to share it.