My beauty is a curse, it drives men away – Young lady ‘Hauwa’ cries out

Beautiful lady identified as Hauwa recently revealed she regrets being born beautiful.

Hauwa stated that instead of attracting worthy and responsible men, her beauty frightens them often.

She said most men are scared of dating and losing her and for that reason, they choose not to be intimate with her. She lacks the ability to keep a man as a result of the intimidation.


The pretty lady tagged her beauty a curse that has turned her into a lonely woman. Guys often tell her they are in love with her but as soon as reality checks in, they disappear forever.

Their fear is dating Hauwa and living to see a better man take her off their grip which makes them feel unsafe, unworthy and then try to guard their egos.

“They say with my beauty, another man can take me, and this can cause them trouble since they are not safe with me,” She said.

Hauwa always got a lot of attention from people around her while growing up. People who claimed they were appreciating God’s creation.


However, she said that disappeared as soon as she checked into adulthood.

“Growing up, people always gave me special attention because of my beauty, I always enjoyed that thinking they were just admiring Allah’s work on me, but when I became a woman I began to think my beauty was more of a curse than a blessing on me,” – Hauwa said. 

The beauty revealed she watched her agemates get married to men who were head over heels for her.

For her, this reality never came to pass and she could just admire the idea of marriage from afar.

In her words;

“I literally saw all my mates get married to a lot of guys tripping over their doorsteps, but the reverse was the case for me.

Men always distanced themselves from me citing that I am overly pretty and they know another guy would definitely take me from him because I would always be the topic of cynosure and so many eyes would be on me hence making me an easy take away.

I am Hauwa, a Fulani girl from the Adamawa plains and these are my pains.”  

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