I say this all the time to a lot of my guys. You have to be on your grind. Find something you love doing and put your heart into it because that’s one way to develop high self-esteem and self-love.
A lot of guys get into romantic relationships and make their whole lives revolve around their woman. They abandon their duties, friends and hobbies because they feel they want a constant supply of pu**y.
Women are meant to be a plus to your life and not the sum total of it. When you get into a relationship with a lady, you invite her into your world and not the other way around.
A lot of women are insecure about themselves and feel they aren’t good enough to keep a man interested in them for the long term. Set boundaries in your relationship. Things you aren’t willing to compromise on as a man and stand by those words unaffected by the tantrums your partner throws around.
When your lady becomes bi**hy, shouts at you or disrespect you in any way. You have to stay in your centre and say words along the lines of ” Babe I really don’t appreciate the way you are speaking to me. So just leave and when you ready to talk to me in a sweet loving and respectful manner, just give me a call and we’ll go on a date and talk”. Then you have to go about your business and wait for her call. If she doesn’t call fine. You already have your answer, it wouldn’t have worked out either way.
A lot of guys seat there and take the insults and be the nice guy who tries to “UNDERSTAND” or at the very least attempts to be the understanding boyfriend but all these helps to show is how WEAK of a man he is and eventually the lady breaks up with him and he is left holding his balls saying “Everything was perfect, what happened??”
Remember no one does anything to you which you haven’t invited them to or encouraged. You have to be willing to walk away from women and mean it.